People like to give definition to everything, and they give definition to themselves based on existing definitions of other things. We should give a word a new definition every time we use it. If we call you a girl, you are not a girl who has appeared on anything before. You are "a girl" who is standing in front of the people and do your thing. We exist in the gap where people's vision and our own vision will meet. The differences grind me and I struggle through them.